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Helping Children Stay On Track

  • oscnjo
  • Jun 9
  • 2 min read
Everyday skills for positive relationships - an OSCAR staff self-review 

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 1= not often 2 = sometimes 3 = frequently 


1. I maintain relationships and build connection through friendly conversation 


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2. I join in on activities and encourage others to do the same 


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3. I take time to interact with children who I don’t know so well 


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4. I observe situations before acting – keeping in mind that I might not need to intervene at all 


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5. I ask children questions to help understand how they see things 


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6. I listen to children carefully, in a way that encourages communication 


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7. I recognise and acknowledge emotions: my own & children’s 


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8. I notice situations where children’s behaviour could escalate and become disruptive and take action before it does 


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9. I make clear, assertive requests when I need assistance or to direct others during programme tasks and activities 


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10. Before doing something for a child, I consider if the child could do it for his/herself. (If I am not sure I can ask the child.) 


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  • This role requires you to be actively involved with children, supervising effectively at all times

  • Keep your messages simple – reasons / explanations aren’t always needed

  • Be prepared to call it – children often need certainty and saying ‘no’ is OK

  • Look for win-wins: be open to alternatives but be aware of manipulation – ways that children might simply be trying to avoid taking responsibility

  • How you respond to a behaviour could be contributing to the behaviour happening again - so be on the lookout for patterns of repeated behaviour and consider alternative responses

  • Improvement takes practice. Making mistakes is part of the process – for you and the children

  • Each day is a new day



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